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Why It's So Important to Go After Your Dreams

2026-02-18 · 12 min

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On Office of the Day we talk a lot about going after what you want, not waiting for the perfect moment, not waiting for someone to hand you permission. Your dreams are yours. And it is not just motivational talk, there is a real cost to sitting still. Here is why going after your dreams matters, and how to start.

The Cost of Not Going

When you do not go after your dreams, you do not stay in neutral, you slide. Regret compounds. The gap between where you are and where you could be gets wider. Earl Nightingale said it decades ago: the opposite of courage is not cowardice, it is conformity. Conforming to what everyone expects, or to your own fear, is a slow way to lose the life you could have had.

We see it in sales, in business, in life: the people who make it are the ones who decided to go. They did not have more time or more money at the start, they had more nerve. So the first reason to go after your dreams is simple: the cost of not going is too high. You owe it to yourself to try.

If You Can Believe It, You Can Achieve It

That phrase is at the heart of what we teach. Belief comes first. Your mind has to see it before your feet can walk there. When you really believe something is possible, for you, not just for others, you start making different choices. You show up differently. You take the call, send the email, make the offer.

That does not mean blind positivity. It means choosing to believe that you have a shot. That your dream is not silly or selfish, it is yours. Once that belief is in place, action follows. So go after your dreams by first giving yourself permission to believe they are real.

The Slight Edge: Small Steps, Big Results

Jeff Olson’s book The Slight Edge is a staple for a reason. Going after your dreams does not mean one giant leap. It means small, consistent steps. Read a few pages. Make one call. Write one post. Move your body. The same simple disciplines that would have made you successful are the same simple errors that keep you stuck when you do not do them.

Every day you do something toward your dream, you are building. Every day you do not, you are reinforcing the habit of staying put. So go after your dreams by making them a daily practice, not a someday goal.

Gratitude and Grit

We talk about gratitude on the show because it changes how you show up. When you start the day with gratitude, for what you have, for the chance to try, you are not coming from lack. You are coming from enough. That mindset makes it easier to take risks, to reach out, to go after the next step.

Gratitude does not mean settling. It means knowing that you already have something to build on. Then you add grit: the willingness to do hard things, to show up when it is uncomfortable, to keep going when you do not see results yet. Gratitude plus grit is how you go after your dreams without burning out.

One Step Today

You do not have to have it all figured out. You do not need the perfect plan. You need one step today. One call. One application. One conversation. One yes to yourself. Motivate... Initiate... Delegate! Get your mind right, take the first step, and then build the system so you are not doing it all alone.

Your dreams are yours. No one else will go after them for you. Start today, one step. If you can believe it, you can achieve it.

For daily motivation and real talk on going after your dreams, listen to Office of the Day with Mark Anthony, on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and everywhere you listen.